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Tuesdays with Morrie
Albon, Mitch
Describes interaction between an older man who is dying and a younger man who was his student earlier in life.
Adults
Doubleday, 1997
George Anderson's Lessons from the Light
Anderson, George & Barone, Andrew
Extraordinary messages of comfort and hope from the other side.
Adults
Berkeley Books, NY, 1999
Walking in the Garden of Souls
Anderson, George & Barone, Andrew
Advice from the Hereafter, for living in the here and now
Adults
G.P. Putnam Sons, NY, 2001
How We Grieve: Relearning the World
Attig, Thomas
Explains through the stories of specific people’s grieving how the bereaved relearn their relationships—to themselves and their spirituality, to survivors and others, to time, space, and to the deceased.
Adults
Oxford University, 1996
DT
Handbook for Those Who Grieve
Auz, Martin M. & Lyons, Maureen
Gives practical approaches for those who grieve or support the grieving. Many scenarios: work, home, violence, unexpected, elderly, very young. What to do and say. Useful bibliography.
Teens & Adults
Loyola Chicago Press, 2002
DT
The Grief Club
Beattie, Melody
Subtitled “The Secret to Getting Through All Kinds of Change,” Good overall coverage of change, not specific to death.
Adults
Hazelden, 2006
Are You There God? It’s Me Margaret
Blume, Judy
The story of Margaret’s moving and emotions in forming a new life.
Ages 8-12
Atheneum, 2001
The Path Through Grief, a Practical Guide
Bouvard, Marguerite
Contains interviews and personal narratives on all types of loss—spouse, parent, child, sibling, or friend. Covers loss through illness, stillbirth, miscarriage, homicide, and suicide with a chapter on AIDS.
Adults
Prometheus, 1998
A Journey Through Grief*
Bozarth, Alla Renee, Ph.D.
Short, easily read book to help in the difficult stages of the grieving process.
Teens & Adults
Hazeldon Educational Materials, 1994
Life is Goodbye, Life is Hello*
Bozarth, Alla Renee, Ph.D.
Book deals with grieving through all types of losses.
Late Teens & Adults
Hazeldon Educational Materials, 1986
Mourning and Mitzvah
Brener, Annie
A guided journal for walking the mourner’s path through grief to healing. Culturally sensitive with sixty exercises.
Adults
Jewish Lights, 2001
Grief’s Courageous Journey*
Caplan, Sandi & Lang, Gordon
This is a workbook encouraging writing and other methods to work through grief.
Late Teens & Adults
New Harbinger, 1995
How to Survive the Loss of a Love
Colgrove, Melba, Ph.D. & Bloomfield, Harold, M. D.
Describes overcoming losses of any kind, including death, breakups, divorce, and the recovery process. Easy to read format with poems and short quotes.
Late Teens & Adults
Prelude Press, 2000
Death and Dying: Life and Meaning
Core, C., Nabe, C., & Core, D.
Book gives a comprehensive discussion of insights into dying and bereavement.
Adults
Thomson, Wadsworth, 2003
The Year of Magical Thinking
Didion, Joan
Written by professional author about the death of her husband.
Adults
Vintage, 2007
The Birth We Call Death
Dunn, Paul H. & Eyre, Richard M.
Quotations dealing with death, giving hope for eternal life.
Adults
Bookcraft, 1994 (Mormon Church)
This Thing Called Grief: New Understandings of Loss
Ellis, Thomas M.
Brief and readable, full of personal experiences and practical advice. It is an alternative for those who do not relate to the five stages of grief, as the author emphasizes that grief is not neatly packaged into stages,.
Adults
Syren Book Company, 2006
Guiding Your Child Through Grief
Emswiler, Mary Ann & James
By Founders of the New England Center for Loss& Transition. Addresses challenges, including those with teens. Covers communication, feelings, behaviors, long-term effects, with a family focus.
Adults Bantam, 2000 DT, ES, IT, SD, SH
The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down
Fadiman, Ann
Addresses cultural awareness in the Grieving process.
Adults
Farrar, Strauss, & Giroux, 1997
The Mourning Handbook
Fitzgerald, Helen
Comprehensive resource offering advice on coping with all aspects of dying, including childhood grief, funeral, and more. Lists support groups.
Adults and Older Teens
Fireside, 1995
DT, SH
Mans Search for Meaning
Frankl, Viktor, M. D.
Deeply touching review of author’s imprisonment in a Nazi camp and the importance of love that helped him survive his many losses.
Late Teens & Adults
Pocket Book, 1984
The Prophet
Gibran, K.
Timeless poems expressing feelings of life and death, pleasure and pain, joy and sorrow. Gives views to help through the most difficult of times.
Late Teens & Adults
Alfred A. Knoph, 1969
Swallowed by a Snake
Golden, Tom
This is a valuable resource for men defining grief, describing gender differences in grieving patterns, and ideas to help work through grief.
Adult Men
Golden Healing, 1994
In Sickness and In Health
Grollman, Earl A.
Coping skills during a loved one’s illness and finding strength.
Adults and Older Teens
Beacon Press, 1987
Living When a Loved One Has Died
Grollman, Earl A.
Poems to help through the grieving process.
Adults
Beacon Press, 1995
Living While a Loved One is Dying
Grollman, Earl A.
Ideas to help when a loved one is dying. Easy to read.
Adults
Beacon Press, 1980
Living with Loss, Healing with Hope
Grollmam, Earl A.
Gives ideas to help heal and regain hope.
Adults
Beacon Press, 2001
What Helped Me When My Loved One Died
Grollman, Earl A.
Gives helpful information on a variety of deaths and the ensuing grieving process.
Late Teens & Adults
Beacon Press, 1981
The Loss That Is Forever
Harris, Maxine
Dealing with the finality of loss and recovering through grief.
Families
Plume, 1996
Help for the Hard Times: Getting Through Loss
Hipp, Earl
Suggestions on getting through the difficult times of grieving and overcoming the feelings of loss.
Families
Hazelden, 1995
The Grief Recovery Handbook
James, John W. and Friedman, Russell
A step by step program for moving through the grieving process.
Late Teens & Adults
Harper, 1998
The Needs of the Dying
Kessler, David
Tools and resources to bring hope, comfort, and love when a loved one is dying.
Adults
HarperCollins, 2007 Revised
Up From Grief
Kreis, Bernadine & Pattie, Alice
Written to help those who are in grief, those who need to understand grief in order to help a friend or relative, and those who work with the grief-stricken.
Adults
Harper San Francisco, 1985
Death—The Final Stage of Growth
Kubler-Ross, Elizabeth
Discusses death as giving meaning to life and as part of human development.
Adults
Prentice-Hall, 1975
On Grief and Grieving
Kubler-Ross, Elizabeth & Kessler, David
Understanding and finding meaning throughthe five stages of loss.
Adults
Scribner, 2005
Whena Friend Needs You - Helping People Through Grief
Kuenning, Delores
A sensitive guide to help you know how and when to show your concern with people in crisis and pain.
Adults and
Bethany House, 1987
Grieving Mindfully: A Compassionate and Spiritual Guide to Coping with Loss
Kumar, Sameet M.
Based on the Buddhist theory of handling grief, the book offers a quick summarization of what mindful grieving is. Analyzes why it is a good thing to take time to do actual battle with grief.
Professionals & Adults
New Harbinger Publications, 2005
When Bad Things Happen to Good People*
Kushner, Harold S.
This book discusses traumatic events and dealing with the pain.
Teens & Adults
Avon Books, 1981
What To Do Before and After Someone Dies
Lee, Judith
Answers questions about death and dying. From making funeral arrangements to handling special circumstances, gives you the basics. It is a resource to help those involved navigate the practical considerations.
Professionals & Adults
Little Moose Press, 2006
When Life Takes What Matters
Lenzkes, Susan
Book lists devotions to help through change and crisis.
Teens & Adults
Discovery House, 1993
Healing into Life and Death, Who Dies, Meetings at the Edge
Levine, Steven
Facing death and emotions during difficult times of loss.
Adult
Tarcher, 1989
Unattended Sorrow
Levine, Steven
Recovering from loss and reviving ones self.
Adult
Tarcher, 2006
The Healing Power of Grief
Lintermans, Gloria & Stolzman, Marilyn
Leads mourners through five sequences grief and into recovery and balance. Provides helpful do’s and don’ts for the bereaved and their friends and family. Concrete suggestions in the text and workbook for readers to put into practice. Gentle, comprehensive and practical.
Professionals/Adults
Champion Press, 2006
Don’t Take My Grief Away
Manning, Doug
Steps to take when you losing a loved one.
Adult
Harper, 1984
The Reluctant Traveler
Marr, Diane Demsey, Ph.D.
This is a workbook to guide people after various types of loss—death, illness, divorce, and others. It gives practical steps, spiritual insight, and hope.
Adults
NavPress, 2002
Working with the Dreaming Body and Coma
Mindell, Arnold
Key to awakening, plus more possibilities of the body’s role in revealing aspects of the self.
Adult
Lao Tse, 1998
Dark Night of the Soul
Moore, Thomas
Book gives advice in the quest for meaning during life’s darkest hours: the loss of a loved one, depression, illness, disappointment—giving genuine solace and guidance.
Adults
Cygnus Books, 2004
Letting Go With Love
O’Connor, Nancy, Ph.D.
Gives steps and guides through various losses, including suicide, with emphasis on coping and healing.
Teens & Adults
La Mariposa Press, 1984
Bereavement
Parkes, C. M.
Adult life studies on grief are examined.
Adults
Routledge, 1996
Transcending Loss
Prend, Ashley Davis
Book discusses the long impact of grief and making it meaningful.
Adults
Berkley Books, 1997
When Your Pet Dies
Quackenbush, J. & Graveline, D.
Helps owners understand feelings and grieving when a pet dies.
Teens & Adults
Pocket Books, 1985
How to Go on Living When Someone...You Love Dies
Rando, Therese A. Ph.D
Helps understand grief and grieving different types of deaths, myths about grieving and how to "resolve" grief.
Adults
Bantam Books, 1988
Surviving Grief
Sanders, Dr. Catherine M.
Ideas are given to help through the grieving process.
Teens & Adults
John Wiley Publishers, 1992
Beyond Grief
Staudacher, Carol
Describes various types of losses: parent, child friend, including violent death and suicide. Suggests how to get and give help.
Teens & Adults
New Harbinger, 1987
The Courage To Grieve
Tatelbaum, Judy
Creative living, recovery and growth through grief.
Adults
Harper, 1980
Alexander, Who’s Not (Do you hear me? I mean it!) Going to Move
Viorst, Judith
This depicts Alexander’s intense feelings about moving and feelings of loss.
Ages 4-10
Aladdin Paperbacks, 1998
Grace: How to Help a Grieving Friend
Whitson, Stephanie
This book is written very matter-of-factly from survivors' points of view. This book helps friends understand what the grief-stricken friend is going through, and how to help them best.
Late Teens & Adults
NavPress, 2005
The Art of Condolence
Zunin, Leonard M., M. D. & Zunin, Hilary S.
This book gives suggestions on what to write, say, and do after a loss.
Adults
Harper Perennial, 1992
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Fiction Books for Children to Read Alone or with Adults
Nonfiction Books for Children & Families
Loss of a Grandparent
Intermediate and Junior High
Book for Teens
Suicide, Homicide, 9-11, & Other Trauma
Grieving Loss - Miscarriage or Perinatal
Death of a Partner
Professional
Workbooks Dealing with Death
Other Media
